At Depression and Dharma tonight, i was annoyed, entertained, and educated. Feedback was interjected with humor. The group was smaller, the teacher more focused and animated. I'm glad i went.
Woman #1 was anxiety-ridden, but wasn't sure she belonged in this group per se, because
How is anxiety related to depression again?
Fuck's sakes, as i shared with a fellow attendee later, Are you kidding me?!?! If you're depressed, you know it. How can you not know?!!!
Have i mentioned i have anger management issues? LOL
Toward the end there was woman #2 who was concerned with where to draw the line between nourishing activities and denial (in my vocabulary, pleasurable activities and avoidance).
She was having a rough week. She decided to, instead of wallowing, meet a friend up for coffee.
The friend's take? "Someone's feeling entitled!"
So maybe that's depleting.
The teacher said wisdom comes from within. When faced with a difficult situation one needn't stare at it in the face 24/7.
Really?!! That's news to me. I thought avoidance was always, but always, condemned.
"It's not like you're getting drunk at a bar," clarified the instructor. "It's not destructive."
I had an urge to comment:
So, to recap... Getting drunk at a bar... that's NOT okay?
Just a little alcoholic humor : )
(And, by naming it, i've killed it.)
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